16 tips to learn in your 20's

 16 things I learn from my twenties

1. Use time effective at 20's⏰

The free time which 20's had a lot of time.

The Time we have now is loot box to learn new Topics such as AI . Anything is very possible to fail but gets up again to try new. We have 20's to try many type of works and settle one at 30's as a family man. We had the pride of trying many works and also choose a best work that suits for us. 

Here I want to talk about a friend of mine is doing a full time job and another one friend doing a part time job to run there family with that money. so, I just remember one of them to move forward in tough situation to handle in that age. Don't waste your twenties you will regret it later of your life. Start to change yourself at these moment and decide a life with a better handling capacity or worst life that takes away a few years from you. So take it back to the path that you want to live.

2. Take responsibility at earlier life:✋

I want to take some responsibility earlier. So that makes life easier for good future to me. I Like making plan for the marriage of my sister and my education fees to be paid by myself. So, take care of parent as earlier as possible . I made a list of priority based to be finished it. I see that parents having health issues and struggle to work at everyday. They needs some rest but the situation is not good. Money is needed for lot of reasons. Parents are getting old in front of us. So, I want to give some rest to them. That's my responsibility. What about you?

3.Faces your fear, which is not that hard to face:πŸ‘Š

The fear to face a women , a conversation with strangers,a larger audience at a place to walk is a fear for me . I had list of fear that I had but to my surprise, I slowly overcome from those fear one by one and still few left so, I want to be less fear at a thing in my life that nobody going to save us .So, make a list of your fears to overcome by facing them.

4.Keep on push yourself from the boundaries:πŸ’ͺ

 Where boundaries you set for yourself is needed to be extended according to the change in time.

keep try something new and first try will be the most you want to do .Then keep yourself engaged in your life.Whenever you felt  comfort at a zone. Then do something like anything such as do a project for the house to get make life more engaged to you . Stop being so, boring in your whole day. The boundaries are good. but, when you try new habits and then set your boundaries according to the input of your thought teach you a lot for the life. 

5.The habits:πŸ’–

Most of you don't know that having a habit already in your day to day life . Here back of your mind that reminds you to do a set of work for today. Also having a regular habits like reading subjects for the exam and prepare for improving your self. Make changes according to the need from your side. More you try to change, there create new versions of you to see the world. When the sun arise like that a new version arise from you...

6.First accept yourself :πŸ˜‰

Here accept yourself first and then ask others to accept you. Self acceptance is very important to the life. It's gives a big relief about yourself. Which you are best and trying to overcome from the bad habits. Best version of you is coming soon. Which you believe on yourself that became a good human one day.

7. Enjoy A every single day of your life:πŸ‘

write your life as a diaries to turn back to cherish and keep you alive.

The time we are lived is gone to be past. Where every second is going to be past of our life. We have a chance to enjoy the moments with other to cherish the past even without the presence of us. Where someone will remember us in there entire life. That's what I need to built in my entire life to be remembered by someone's life from there one smile is enough for the efforts I done there itself. There I'm going to enjoy the moment of walking on the street with my best friend,talking to all as a supportive person, stay with them gives me a happiness surely I do it.

8.The chance we miss that we regret in our entire life:😱

Try to use the chance. If we are going to simply sleep at home or being nothing to do work. There you get to understand about the regret after missing it . I want to try as many chances comes for me. One single decision changed my entire life. So, Use the chance to go for a trip and enjoy the life. Experience everything if you are free to go.

9. Don't be among in a group:⭐

 It's about being in a group is a safe play for a years is enough.  we always had a thought of not to be popular. But be unique among everyone that helps at various ways. Learn one thing as a best that only you remembered by their want to call you that's enough. We want to be unique.

10.  Fix yourself as the most important person to share the  problem:πŸ’

 without any filters 

"YOU ARE THE LISTENER TO YOUR OWN PROBLEM.

 TO SHARE EVERYTHING TO YOURSELF".

Understand that's your life. Have your best part of the life without any hesitation to speak fairly with yourself and make stress out of yourself. To do the best your part will come to you. So, better find it earlier in the life .For at least we can change in the mean time of the life it self that at peace for the life.

11. Don't be always selfish about your life. Be sometimes not all the time.πŸ«‚

let me tell you a story that a person always talk about himself and people gets easily annoyed with that person . At a point they start to be away from that person. There a time will come save yourself and some other life's. All are fair enough in these world to help and be selfish for the family. what's your thought about these one.

12. Say always yes to parents .πŸ‘ͺ

Parents most of the time asks as very small thing like vacation together, don't leave them at there old age because they did all for us without any thing as a return from us.  Give them a proper respect and don't spoil there name at the public. They are very strong people in front of society never share there hard life. At most of the Time you doesn't know about the life of the parents had struggle to be here..

13. No for other's works then your work.πŸ‘Ž

say no to other works that are absolutely free .As they start to use you for there works to be completed. We don't need to be good person for all.  We not need to prove them that you are good human by working for them. Keep do your work and do your personal work at home, there people always use you as their toys.

14.Keep the Hope to be alive that ignites you.πŸ”₯

Understand that one who comes to these place never stop there life  from hoping to a change. That's the only thing we are actually alive till now hoping for something to happen in the life.

keep yourself alive in all tough situation by that you are able to understand the life is about keep hoping to carry forward you to a place as your works are made them possible.

Both the sentences are same but, keep yourself alive at the life. Don't loss the hope on your life is about the moment will change your life from any stage.

15. feel free to say no.,πŸ˜“

Never hesitate to say no that means you have the right to say no to a person. if you don't felt right to do the same as the second person it's not wrong at all in the life. 

Here, for ex: everyone is going to a trip you are the one decide that has to go or to do your work or if you felt to go along with the people is right for you .Don't worry every decision is depends upon you only.

once a yes keep it as a yes at until the end of the trip. Man one yes is enough for the last to reach the home of yours. for the next time you don't want to go, if you felt bad about the trip. Decision upon's you make it as simple yes or no to take any one of the decision don't be overthink it. 

16. Ask any question to anyoneπŸ‘

If we need to know means don't even hesitate to ask a help that makes to works means just ask out.

Help are not awkward. But asking a thing to people is suppose to be very needed for you.

 To ask a stranger a simple one. if you don't know the place for the bus stop . Ask someone you means at least someone will surely helps you.

To find the place for you by asking a help only. Lead to keep asking one after one ask ask ask until you get the answer for the question . you asked the people you see the right roads to reach the destination for the life. 

From this what are need to change myself.  Let me hear from the readers to teach me....

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